Cultivating Positive Relationships

  • Greet each child personally and warmly every day. Be a calming presence. 

  • Employ positive non-verbal cues.

  • Listen attentively when children speak and practice responsive care. 

  • Get down to their eye level to foster connection.

  • Show genuine interest in children’s activities and emotions.

Creating a Respectful Environment

  • Respect children’s feelings, individuality, and family cultures.

  • Use language that demonstrates care and encourages emotional expression.

  • Help children learn to name and navigate their emotions.

  • Offer positive reinforcement by describing and modeling appropriate behaviors.

  • Support children in managing disagreements through guided problem-solving and conflict resolution.

Creating the Space

  • Provide age-appropriate, engaging materials that promote creativity, exploration, and play.

  • Ensure there are enough materials for all children to minimize conflicts.

  • Organize the environment so children can easily find and return items.

  • Limit transitions during the day and offer clear warnings before transitions to support predictability.

  • Use visual schedules, first/then boards, and social stories to help children feel secure and understand routines.

Encouraging Positive Behaviors

  • Teach behavioral expectations directly and practice routines together.

  • Use strategies such as redirection, diversion, or distraction to guide children toward positive activities.

  • Provide choices and alternatives to empower children in decision-making.

  • Model language that supports collaboration, problem-solving, and mutual respect.

Emotional Support

  • Provide individualized interventions to support children’s unique social-emotional needs.

  • Collaborate with Early Childhood Mental Health consultants when needed to assess and enhance the childcare environment.

  • Recognize and accommodate different temperaments, allowing extra time and preparation for transitions when necessary.